What kind of person attracts me and why?
Physically, in a guy, dark hair, blue eyes, and just about 6 feet tall has pretty much been my go-t0 default. Oh, and the scruff. Apparently, I like the scruff (as seen yesterday!).
In other areas, I guess I lean a little toward liking a little bit of “bad boy” mixed in. Like, with Jim, there was the fact that he had a motorcycle. There was a little extra something there because of that. ;)
Other traits I find attractive, gender notwithstanding, are attentiveness, sincerity, integrity, intelligence, loyalty, sensitivity (though I have a couple no-nonsense friends and I love them, too), compassion, and forgiveness.
Oh, and anymore, a really attractive feature is love for my kids, and the willingness to take them off my hands once in a while. It doesn’t get any more attractive than that!